babies

writing a list of baby items from A-Z

Two Mondays ago was the first baby shower we have done for people we know in Huejotzingo.  It was for the daughter of the neighbor who collects rent on the house where we live. She is the same neighbor we started Bible studies with in November. Monday was a busy day of preparing for the shower for Abraham, my mother-in-law Six, and I.  At about 5, some neighbor ladies showed up, and around a half-hour later, a group of ladies came from our church, Dios es Amor.  Six gave a meditation, we sang a hymn, and then whoever wanted to prayed for the young mother-to-be.  After that, we played some games, and then snacked while various women wrote verses and/or advice for the mom-to-be.  At about 7;30, the baby shower ended.

This coming Monday we have another baby shower for the daughter of the couple who live in front.  This baby will be her second.  Again, we expect a group of ladies from the church, as well as some from the neighborhood.

Speaking of babies, ours are growing up amazingly fast. Abishael speaks a funny mixture of Spanish and English, although he is beginning to take note that there are two different languages.  When he's not too busy playing to notice her, he loves his sister Leilani.  She is becoming more coordinated and now can grab the toys her big brother offers her.  She grins happily at Abishael's antics and loves his attention.

retreat photo booth

Just last weekend, Leilani and I went to the annual ladies' retreat. She was doted on, and I enjoyed the time to catch up with friends I only see at the retreat.  Although I am now basically bilingual, it was also refreshing to worship in English.
 Leaving the retreat center on Sunday afternoon, I felt I was re-entering Mexico after a brief time away.

We're coming up on Easter and are planning how to teach the events of Holy week and Easter Sunday.  As soon as Lent began, different families started hosting the 30 altars representing different manifestations of Christ (Lord of Pardon, Lord of Comfort, etc.).  People visit the altars and participate in the masses there.  The host families provide food, flowers, and much more, spending around $20,000 pesos during the time the altar is at their house.  Our prayer is that we can show that Holy Week is not about out-spending the neighbors but that Jesus' suffering, death, and resurrection are the reason we live.

Ministry Transition

Here we are, already halfway through the second month of 2015.  Incredible!

All together at the Puebla zocalo

This year, because we didn´t want to travel internationally with our newborn baby Leilani, we stayed in Huejotzingo for Christmas and New Year rather than visit family in the States.  My dad came for a week the
same week that Leilani was born, and then my sister Joy came for two weeks just after Christmas.  We had a fun time, although Abishael brought in the New Year throwing up.  We are pretty sure the stomach upset was because of his molars coming in.

Valentine´s Day game Sunday

From the time that this mission of Dios es Amor started in Huejotzingo, the primary participants have been children.  It was rare for adults to attend the Sunday afternoon activities, although they were always welcome.  During the week, once we moved to Huejotzingo, we have had tutoring and a Tuesday afternoon craft time for girls.  Within the last few months, however, there has been a change.  Several of the kids that used to come to our house moved away.  There are still a number of children in the neighborhood, but they are not interested in attending, are working, or are not permitted to come.

There is a family which lives right across the street from us, and a varying number of adults from there come over on Sunday afternoons.  The teen boys also have a Bible study with Abraham on the Friday or Saturday evenings that they are not working.  Those members of the family who wish to be there also have a Bible study with Abraham and Six on Tuesday evenings.  There are significant problems, including alcoholism, in that family.  The mother is the only one who professes Christ as her Savior, but other family members do seem to be interested in learning more.

writing Bible verses about love on salt dough hearts

Abraham and I also began a Bible study in November with another neighbor.  She too has many difficulties in her life.  She is very welcoming and enjoys the conversation and Bible stories.

Another new Bible study we have is Wednesdays in the next nearest city, San Martin, with Abraham´s sister and various people who live in the same house.  Our niece has said she is a Christian, but she does not really live like it, and most of the rest of the people at that house do not claim to have a relationship with Christ.

So now we have an alteration in the ministry.  There are still a few kids who come on Sunday afternoon, but it has become rare for them to come for tutoring or craft time.  We still have English class on Saturdays which brings a mix of children and adults.

Please pray that we have wisdom in this new season.  Pray that doors will continue to open for adults and children to know the Good News and pray for help for our neighbors and family members who are oppressed by destructive habits, health problems, and other significant problems.  Pray also for our health.  Abishael and Leilani recently finished a course of antibiotics for a nasty cough, and it looks like Abraham is sick with a new cold now.

To life!

caterpillars

The days of the dead are observed in Mexico for a week, starting end of October and ending November 2.  During the week, families put together altars, strew trails of marigold petals leading up to their houses, and hold services to remember their dead and invite the spirits to return.

gluing eyes on the butterfly

Our desire is to focus on life and show the light of our living God to the people around us.  Each
year, we choose a project for the Sunday afternoon kids´ club that specifically emphasizes the abundant life that God has given us and the victory of Jesus over death.

This year we had the children create caterpillars with nylons filled with soil and grass seed.  One week they made the caterpillars.  The following week, they used clothespins, ribbon, and googly eyes to make butterflies. 

decorating the trays

 On the final week, they decorated the stryofoam trays that would hold the now-sprouted caterpillars, the butterflies, and the verse.  The verse we chose was 2 Corinthians 15:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!

 Abraham spoke of new life in Christ and of how God is life.  He also talked of how people´s spirits do not return to earth - that the Bible is clear that there are only two places where spirits go after death: heaven or hell.

the finished project

 Speaking of life, our newest family member has finally joined us on the outside.  Although her due date was November 6, Leilani decided to wait six more days to be born.  She came into the world at 8:05 a.m. in the same hospital where her big brother Abishael was born and with the same doctor attending.  Labor with her was much faster than with Abish, which made a great deal of difference in my recovery.  By 6 in the evening on the same day she was born, we headed home.  

She is a calm, sweet girl who smiles often and still sleeps a great deal.  Her big brother would love for her to play with him and periodically offers her toys.  He also snuggles up to her and whispers, "Te amo," and strokes her hair sometimes.  He has mostly adjusted to her being around, although there have been some more tears from him than before. 

Thank you for your prayers for us.  Please continue to pray that we can be light here in Huejotzingo and in Puebla Christian School where Abraham teaches PE.  Pray for continued health and safety as well.  Pray also for the logistics of trying to sell my mother-in-law´s house in order to have the funds to finish paying for land and to build a house here.

Huejotzingo´s Calendar

afternoon clouds gathering near the end of the rainy season

Huejotzingo has two seasons: wet and dry.  The rainy season is my favorite, although it can be inconvenient at times.  During the five or so months of the wet season, vacant lots transform to picturesque and flower-filled.  Graffiti and trash are hidden by lush vegetation, and the air smells fresh.  Both nearby volcanoes often wear a generous covering of snow.  In contrast, as the dry season wears on, vegetation dies, and dust begins to permeate the air.  Skin cracks and itches and touching metal often results in static shocks.  Trash and graffiti once more become visible.

Aside from the climatic calendar, Huejotzingo has a repetitive religious and social calendar.  The last week of September and into the first days of October, the town celebrates its patron, the Archangel Michael.  A statue of the angel is first taken to one church, amid firing of thousands of fireworks.  The sponsors of the celebration spend multiple thousands of pesos to supply all that is involved in the festivities, including feeding all the guests that arrive during the days that the statue is in the area.  On September 28th, the statue is paraded throughout Huejotzingo with great ceremony and more explosion of fireworks.  It is taken to the main cathedral in preparation for the actual day of St. Michael, September 29th.

at a toy booth in the fair

During the two weeks of the observance, the main square (zocalo) converts into a fair ground with rides, vendors of toys and food, and games.  Each night, the zocalo fills with lights, crowds, and loud music.  Sporadic bursts of fireworks add to the general noise.  The very day after the festival of St. Michael ends, the fair disappears, and the zocalo returns to normal.

offerings on an altar for the dead

Next on the religious calendar comes the week of the Days of the Dead.  The first day is October 26 and the last is All Saints´ Day on November 2.  As the days pass, Huejotzingo residents set up altars and lay out paths of marigold petals leading to their doors so that the spirits of dead relatives will return to the house and partake of the offerings on the altars.



Aside from the occasional party for first communions, confirmations, third or fifteenth birthdays, or first-year anniversaries of the death of a family member, there is a lull in the activities until near Dec. 12th.  Beginning early December, pilgrims from all over the country head to Mexico City to the Basilica of Guadalupe.  They start to pass by on the major roads.  Some walk, others ride bicycles, and still others caravan in cars and trucks.  The 12th is the most important day, the day of Guadalupe when thousands crowd the Basilica with their icons and images and participate in the services.

Approaching Christmas, there are posadas when groups of people walk the streets in the early evening, carrying their niño dios dolls and visiting various houses where they receive refreshments or small bags of candies and peanuts.  They sing to the dolls and pass them around to the people in the houses to kiss the image´s feet.  Most families have a special meal late Christmas Eve.

Día de los Reyes (three kings´ day), January 6, is when younger children receive gifts, supposedly from the three kings.  On the days leading up to Jan. 6, the children write letters asking for the gifts they want, and then they usually send the letters tied to helium balloons.

Depending on when Easter is, the next big event in Huejotzingo is the carnival in February or March.  For four days, the town is converted into an enormous theater where costumed men, women, and children reenact different battles from Huejotzingo and Puebla´s history.  Officially, the action only takes place in or near the zocalo between the hours of 10 and 4, but unfortunately many participants use the carnival as an excuse to become and remain drunk for four days.  They gather in groups throughout all of Huejotzingo, dancing, drinking, partying, and firing their muskets for hours.

When Lent starts, all carnival spirit vanishes, and daily services begin at different altars set up in various locations in Huejotzingo.  Families host altars for several days, setting up huge tents, broadcasting music and services, and providing food for all who attend.  There are several processions that progess down the highly decorated streets, moving images from one location to another.

Without much, if any, lapse, once the Easter season ends, the month of May is devoted to daily rosary services for Mary.  June is devoted to services for Joseph.  July and August have no special distinction.  September rolls around and Independence Day receives some attention before once more the festivities start for St. Michael, and so the cycle continues year after year.

Our prayer is to end the cycle.  Certainly there are aspects of the celebrations that are harmless, but so much of what is celebrated throughout the year is devoted to something other than God.  Most of the observance is directed to images or spirits, and the majority of the people believe that they should not or cannot approach God directly.  Please join us in praying that this deep-rooted idea will be exposed as a lie.

crafting with the girls

More than a year ago, my mother-in-law and I started a craft or cooking time with some girls.  Our idea was to provide a time especially for the teen girls who had stopped attending kids´ club on Sunday afternoons.  Those particular girls only attended once or twice, but soon we lowered the age limit and younger girls began to come to the house regularly on Tuesday afternoons.

The internet is very helpful in providing ideas for each week.  The girls have made marblized paper, cooked donuts, created paper flowers, begun to learn how to use a sewing machine, and much more as we meet each week.

learning to use a machine while making a bag

dyed egg shells decorate denim frames http://www.pinterest.com/pin/404198135280022051/

making window clings http://www.blogmemom.com/window-clings/

We also encourage the girls to memorize Scripture.  Currently each one is working on learning a Psalm that they chose.  Progress is slow, but hopefully they will continue to work on their Psalms and find the reward of having God´s Word in their hearts.

memorizing a Psalm while donuts rise

melting crayons http://www.instructables.com/id/Melted-Crayon-Art/

  

Please pray for the teen girls.  We have basically lost contact with them.  Three of them used to attend on Sunday afternoons quite regularly and would also visit our home some during the week.  One of them is now almost 20 and has young son.  Another struggles between rebellion and wanting to live a right life.  The third has become involved in many destructive practices and, it seems, is pregnant although not yet 15.

We also ask prayer for our neighbors who live in front of us.  Over the past few months, they have begun to seek God´s will for their lives.  The two younger children usually come to Sunday kids´ club, and sometimes their mother also attends.  Abraham started a Bible study with teen boys a few months ago, and three or four of the young men from that family usually join him.  The father recently expressed the desire to be baptized and asked Abraham to do a Bible study with him.  However, the family has experienced strong demonic opposition as they study the Bible more.  They struggle with alcoholism, division within the family, and problems from past involvement with witchcraft.

Thank you for your teamwork with us as we live and minister in Huejotzingo.  There are many needs here!

Peter - From Fisherman to Preacher

Mark telling about Peter´s life

One week of eating, sleeping, and breathing Vacation Bible School at our home in Huejotzingo ended on Sunday.  We chose to create a VBS based on the life of Peter, emphasizing how Jesus changed him into the man he became.  Our first day, the story was narrated by Peter´s brother, Andrew.  On Tuesday, the narrator was a mouse who lived in the house of Peter´s mother-in-law and witnessed how Jesus healed her.  The third day was from the point of view of the beggar healed by God´s power through Peter and John.  Cornelius told Thursday´s story, and Mark wound up the week telling about some stories that Peter had told him.  We developed our games, crafts, songs, and work pages to reinforce the stories and the day´s verse, and we told the children that the stories were to be shared - that they could repeat the Bible accounts to their friends and family.

We were very blessed to have a capable team from Dios es Amor come each day to help us.  Although the VBS is small with the week´s maximum attendance at 25 children, we all had plenty to do.  We divided the children into two groups, with the younger group having children aged 2 - 7, and the older group 8 - 13 (older would have been fine, but the oldest who attended happened to be 13).  In the younger group, we had three 2-year-olds, one of them being Abishael.

The children thoroughly enjoyed the week.  One girl showed up on Saturday at 12, convinced there was still another day of VBS, although the only part left was Sunday´s finale at 3.  We tentatively plan to have another VBS in December, depending partly on how our new baby is and how Abishael reacts to being a big brother.  The new baby is due end of October or beginning of November, so we will work on developing the VBS but will wait to do it if our children need more time.

We appreciate all the prayers that were said on our behalf.  A few weeks before the VBS, Abishael was sick with a throat infection that gave him almost constant fever and robbed him of energy.  Several times we took him to the doctor, thinking the infection had become pneumonia, because he was only getting worse rather than improving with medication.  Thankfully, the infection never did turn into pneumonia.  Abraham and I both had to take antibiotics as well, since we also came down with the infection, although not as seriously as Abishael had.

On the Monday when VBS began, Abishael woke up with fever again, after several days of almost normal health.  When we took him to the doctor in the afternoon, she diagnosed a stomach infection, and he had to begin a new course of medication.  That infection responded better to the antibiotics, and he soon returned to his exuberant self, very happy to participate in all the VBS activities.

Many of the children missed the Sunday finale, because there was another event at the same time with another family.  However, even so, this year more parents and other relatives attended the finale than any previous year.

Please continue your prayers for us.  Pray for health, since we have only just emerged from illness.  Pray also that the children would be willing to share the Bible stories they learn with their families and that we can continue to build relationships with their parents.

Thursday at VBS

Thursday was another busy VBS day here.

Reviewing the week's lessons: Can you guess what they are?

A closer look at the week's lessons

Cornelius tells his story

Peter has a vision

All colored!

More from Huejotzingo VBS

The kids are still coming to have fun and learn about the Lord.

The leaders demonstrate tin can stilts

The kids racing

Abraham helps the little ones with stilt walking

Craft time

Huejotzingo VBS 2014

It's time for VBS here in Heujotzingo. Here is some of what we have been doing:

A mouse tells the story of how Jesus healed Peter's mother-in-law

Gathering for songs and Bible story.

Getting ready for a relay race.

Racing

Putting together a Bible memory puzzle

Gathering at the end of the day

Visiting friends during the rainy season

navigating muddy roads

 Rainy season, while a blessing in many ways, does make our Sunday evening visit more challenging.  Most Sundays after kids´ club we go to the home of the family that we have known the longest in Huejotzingo.  Abraham began visiting their home during the week more than a year before we moved to Huejotzingo, and we have continued ever since.

They do not attend any church, although they are confirmed and baptized Catholics and are devoted to Guadalupe.  They used to live a few streets away from us, but not very long ago, they bought property in a place surrounded by fields and unpaved roads, and they built a house and moved there.  Now, instead of a quick walk to their house, we go by bike.

exploring outside

bouncing on the bed

Abishael doesn´t always go with us, because his grandma Six is at our home Sunday through Wednesday, so he sometimes stays with her.  However, when conditions permit (it´s not pouring rain), we usually take him with us, because he absolutely loves playing there.  The family has sheep, turkeys, chickens, dogs, geese, and other livestock, and Abish is fascinated by the animals.  He also thoroughly enjoys playing with the other kids.  The youngest is more than three years older than Abish, but they still play loud, rowdy games together and have lots of fun.

While the kids play, I am either outside with them keeping an eye out to make sure the games don´t get too rough, or if it´s raining, inside but still watching.  Abraham chats with the adults for awhile about all kinds of different topics.  The father of the family spent several years in the States, as did various other relatives, so sometimes the conversation is about his times there.  Eventually, Abraham tells a story from the Bible, and then he and the father discuss the story.  Some time after that, we bike back home.

Please join us in praying for the family, that they could have a personal relationship with Jesus.  Right now they cling to tradition without knowing much about the Bible or about God.  We are thankful that they continue to be welcoming friends and willingly listen to the stories Abraham tells from the Bible.